A Big Welcome To YOU! This is a Safe Space for the parent who is exhausted by their own life, who gives everything, carries everything, and wonders why the peace they keep reaching for never quite arrives.
You are in the right place.
The Feeling Identifier
A Discovery Reflection
Six Truths About the Feeling No Parent Has Ever Been Allowed to Admit
For the Parent Who Cannot Love Freely
Shaffa is a wife, a mother, a U.S. Navy Vet, and the author of The Feeling You Cannot Admit, the first book that breaks the silence on the taboo subject of blocked parental love and feelings towards a particular child. She is a writer, coach, teacher, and speaker. Her work sits at the intersection of psychology, spirituality, and the lived experience of parents.

Are You Carrying a Feeling You Have Never Been Able to Name?

The Feeling Identifier is a free discovery reflection designed specifically for the parent who cannot love freely. Move through nine honest questions and discover six truths about what you have been carrying that most parents never get to hear.
No judgment. No pressure. Just the truth, finally named.
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